BE THE BEST WEDDING GUEST: TIPS ON GIFT GIVING, ATTIRE, AND MORE
Attending a wedding is not just about witnessing a beautiful union but also about participating in one of the most significant days of someone’s life. As a guest, you have a wonderful opportunity to contribute to the joy and smooth flow of the event. From selecting the right gift to choosing your attire and more, each decision you make can enhance the wedding experience both for yourself and the happy couple. At Factory51, we’ve seen countless weddings and have gathered expert advice on how you can shine as the ideal wedding guest… even when the spotlight is on the bride!
Here’s our guide to help you navigate these important choices with ease.
Choosing the Perfect Wedding Gift
Check the Registry: The first and easiest step is to check if the couple has a registry. This is a straightforward way to ensure you’re buying something they want or need. Purchasing from the registry also helps avoid duplicate gifts, which can be a big help to the couple.
Group Gifts: For more expensive items on the registry, consider pooling resources with other guests. Group gifts allow you to give substantial, impactful gifts without the full burden of the cost falling on one person.
Personalised Gifts: If you know the couple well, a personalised gift that reflects their interests or experiences can be a touching gesture. Whether it’s a custom piece of art or a personalised set of wine glasses, these gifts often become cherished keepsakes.
Cash or Gift Cards: More couples are now opting for cash or gift cards to help fund their honeymoon or home renovations. This practical gift is always appreciated and can be the best choice, especially if you’re unsure what to give.
Selecting Appropriate Attire
Understand the Dress Code: Wedding invitations often include a dress code. Whether it’s black tie, cocktail, or smart casual, it’s crucial to adhere to these guidelines to show respect for the event’s tone and setting.
And, whatever you do, don’t wear white… or versions of off-white, ivory, etc. (unless the invite specifically says to)!
Venue Considerations: At Factory51, with its rustic charm and elegant setting, we recommend opting for smart-casual to semi-formal attire that matches our aesthetic. Think cocktail dresses or a blazer and slacks combo that feels a bit elevated.
Comfort Matters: Remember that you’ll be at the event for several hours, possibly standing for long periods or dancing. Choose attire and footwear that won’t just look good but will also be comfortable throughout the event.
Weather Preparedness: Always check the weather forecast for the day. For outdoor events, be ready with appropriate accessories like umbrellas, sunglasses, or a light jacket.
Etiquette Essentials
RSVP on Time: One of the simplest yet most important ways to be a great guest is to RSVP as soon as possible. Couples rely on accurate headcounts for food, seating, and other logistics.
While you’re at it, don’t forget to list any dietary requirements when you RSVP!
Arrive on Time: Being punctual is a sign of respect. Aim to arrive 15-30 minutes before the ceremony starts to find your seat and settle in without rushing. If you know traffic or parking is going to be a mission, plan your journey even earlier. You don’t want to be the guest trying to sneak into the ceremony late.
Unplugged Ceremony: If the couple requests an unplugged ceremony (no photos or videos), respect their wish. That includes you Aunty Jane! We know you want to show your niece off to your hairdresser the next time you see them, but this is important. The couple have likely hired professional photographers to capture the day beautifully, and they don’t want to see your iPhone sticking up in their photos.
Social Media Guidelines: Pay attention to any guidelines regarding social media. Some couples may prefer no images be posted until they’ve shared their own, or they might provide a hashtag if they’re happy for guests to post photos. Either way, be sure to keep it flattering for the world to see.
Seating Arrangements: If you’ve been allocated a seat, please don’t swap your place card around. Countless hours go into planning seating arrangements, so humbly accept the seat you’ve been given. Swapping places can make it difficult for venue staff to serve dietary meals, so be sure to remain in your allocated seat for the duration of the event.
Reception Participation
Signing the Guest Book: Don’t forget to sign the guest book, take a photo booth snap, or leave a message on the audio book. Whichever version of a guest book the couple have chosen, it’s their way to remember those who shared their special day… so don’t miss out!
Engage with Other Guests: Be open to making new friends and engage politely with other guests. Weddings are wonderful opportunities to meet new people and celebrate together. If you do have a personal issue with another guest, simply aim to stay clear of one another. Be courteous and civil if you do come into contact, but remember that it’s not the time or place to enter into drama.
Hit the Dance Floor: Even if dancing isn’t your strongest suit, participating on the dance floor can help set a lively, festive mood. Head to the middle where you’re likely to be surrounded by others and feel a little less self-conscious. After all, it’s about celebrating the moment and we can promise that you aren’t the only one with unique dance moves!
Limit Alcohol Consumption: Enjoy yourself but be mindful of your alcohol intake. Staying within your limits helps maintain the joyful spirit of the day without any mishaps. Think merry, not messy.
Factory51 Wedding Guest
Being a great wedding guest is all about preparation and respect. At Factory51, we cherish the role each guest plays in turning a wedding celebration into a memorable event. By following these tips, you’ll not only enjoy the wedding to its fullest but also contribute positively to the memories the couple will treasure forever. Whether you’re dancing the night away in our stunning venue or toasting to the newlyweds’ future, your role as a guest is crucial in shaping a beautiful wedding experience.
If you’ve been a guest at Factory51, and are looking to hold your own special day with us, we’d love to hear from you! Please reach out to our team to make a time to chat or come in for a tour.